fix(xray): force full restart for inbounds with a VLESS reverse client

Hot-applying an inbound change swaps it via DelInbound+AddInbound on
the running core. That unregisters any client's reverse.tag handler
on the xray-core side without closing the bridge's already-established
connection, so the reverse tunnel is silently orphaned until someone
manually restarts xray. diffInbounds now bails out of the hot-apply
path whenever the old or new inbound carries a reverse-tagged client,
falling back to a full restart, which actually drops the socket and
lets the bridge redial on its own.

Also scope the .claude ignore rule to its contents (.claude/*) instead
of the whole directory, so individual files under .claude/ can be
tracked selectively.

.gitignore

@@ -2,7 +2,7 @@
 .idea/
 .vscode/
 .cursor/
-.claude/
+.claude/*
 .cache/
 .sync*