feat: apply inbound/outbound/routing changes live via Xray gRPC API

Add a hot-apply layer that computes a diff between the old and new
generated config and applies only the changed parts through the Xray
gRPC HandlerService and RoutingService, avoiding a full process restart
whenever possible. A restart is still performed when sections that have
no reload API (log, dns, policy, observatory, ...) actually change.

Key additions:
- internal/xray/hot_diff.go: ComputeHotDiff with canonical-JSON
  comparison (sorted keys, null=absent, full number precision) so UI
  reformatting never triggers a spurious restart
- internal/xray/api.go: AddOutbound/DelOutbound, ApplyRoutingConfig,
  GetBalancerInfo, SetBalancerTarget, TestRoute gRPC wrappers
- internal/web/service/xray.go: tryHotApply, ensureAPIServices,
  GetBalancersStatus, OverrideBalancer, TestRoute service methods
- internal/web/controller/xray_setting.go: balancerStatus,
  balancerOverride, routeTest API endpoints
- frontend: BalancersTab live-status/override columns, RouteTester
  component, Restart button removed (Save now hot-applies)
- balancer-helpers.ts: syncObservatories never creates observatory
  sections for random/roundRobin balancers (no reload API → restart)
- i18n: balancerLive/Override/routeTester keys added to all 13 locales

frontend/public/openapi.json

@@ -7364,6 +7364,126 @@
         }
       }
     },
+    "/panel/api/xray/balancerStatus": {
+      "post": {
+        "tags": [
+          "Xray Settings"
+        ],
+        "summary": "Live state of routing balancers in the running core (RoutingService.GetBalancerInfo): current override and the targets the strategy prefers. Returns a map keyed by balancer tag.",
+        "operationId": "post_panel_api_xray_balancerStatus",
+        "requestBody": {
+          "required": true,
+          "content": {
+            "application/json": {
+              "schema": {
+                "type": "object"
+              }
+            }
+          }
+        },
+        "responses": {
+          "200": {
+            "description": "Successful response",
+            "content": {
+              "application/json": {
+                "schema": {
+                  "type": "object",
+                  "properties": {
+                    "success": {
+                      "type": "boolean"
+                    },
+                    "msg": {
+                      "type": "string"
+                    },
+                    "obj": {}
+                  }
+                }
+              }
+            }
+          }
+        }
+      }
+    },
+    "/panel/api/xray/balancerOverride": {
+      "post": {
+        "tags": [
+          "Xray Settings"
+        ],
+        "summary": "Force a balancer in the running core to always pick one outbound (RoutingService.OverrideBalancerTarget). Applied live without a restart; cleared automatically when Xray restarts.",
+        "operationId": "post_panel_api_xray_balancerOverride",
+        "requestBody": {
+          "required": true,
+          "content": {
+            "application/json": {
+              "schema": {
+                "type": "object"
+              }
+            }
+          }
+        },
+        "responses": {
+          "200": {
+            "description": "Successful response",
+            "content": {
+              "application/json": {
+                "schema": {
+                  "type": "object",
+                  "properties": {
+                    "success": {
+                      "type": "boolean"
+                    },
+                    "msg": {
+                      "type": "string"
+                    },
+                    "obj": {}
+                  }
+                }
+              }
+            }
+          }
+        }
+      }
+    },
+    "/panel/api/xray/routeTest": {
+      "post": {
+        "tags": [
+          "Xray Settings"
+        ],
+        "summary": "Ask the running core which outbound its router would pick for a synthetic connection (RoutingService.TestRoute). No traffic is sent.",
+        "operationId": "post_panel_api_xray_routeTest",
+        "requestBody": {
+          "required": true,
+          "content": {
+            "application/json": {
+              "schema": {
+                "type": "object"
+              }
+            }
+          }
+        },
+        "responses": {
+          "200": {
+            "description": "Successful response",
+            "content": {
+              "application/json": {
+                "schema": {
+                  "type": "object",
+                  "properties": {
+                    "success": {
+                      "type": "boolean"
+                    },
+                    "msg": {
+                      "type": "string"
+                    },
+                    "obj": {}
+                  }
+                }
+              }
+            }
+          }
+        }
+      }
+    },
     "/panel/api/xray/outbound-subs": {
       "get": {
         "tags": [