fix(node): adopt a matching deployed inbound instead of recreating it (#6197)

* fix(node): adopt compatible origin inbounds without mutation

* fix(nodes): preserve ambiguous and adopted aliases

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Co-authored-by: n0ctal <293235942+n0ctal@users.noreply.github.com>

internal/web/job/node_traffic_sync_job.go

@@ -389,6 +389,7 @@ func (j *NodeTrafficSyncJob) syncOne(mgr *runtime.Manager, n *model.Node, doIpSy
 		j.inboundService.ClearNodeOnlineClients(n.Id)
 		return nil
 	}
+	snap.ManagedAliases = rt.AdoptedInboundAliases()
 	service.FilterNodeSnapshot(n, snap)
 	_, _, dirty, _, _ := j.nodeService.NodeSyncState(n.Id)
 	if !dirty {