fix(node): adopt a matching deployed inbound instead of recreating it (#6197)

* fix(node): adopt compatible origin inbounds without mutation

* fix(nodes): preserve ambiguous and adopted aliases

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Co-authored-by: n0ctal <293235942+n0ctal@users.noreply.github.com>

internal/web/service/node.go

@@ -689,6 +689,9 @@ func FilterNodeSnapshot(n *model.Node, snap *runtime.TrafficSnapshot) {
 		return
 	}
 	allowed := nodeSelectedTagSet(n)
+	for _, tag := range snap.ManagedAliases {
+		allowed[tag] = struct{}{}
+	}
 	filtered := make([]*model.Inbound, 0, len(snap.Inbounds))
 	for _, inbound := range snap.Inbounds {
 		if inbound == nil {