feat: integrate Alembic for database migrations

Replace manual if-sqlite/if-postgres branching with Alembic:
- Add alembic dependency
- Create programmatic alembic env (no CLI/alembic.ini needed)
- Support async engines via run_sync passthrough
- render_as_batch=True for SQLite ALTER TABLE compatibility
- Auto-stamp baseline on first run (existing DB at version 25)
- Run alembic upgrade head after legacy migrations
- Include sample migration showing schema + data migration patterns
- Add alembic dir to package-data for distribution

src/langbot/pkg/persistence/alembic/script.py.mako

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+# Alembic script.py.mako — template for auto-generated revisions
+"""${message}
+
+Revision ID: ${up_revision}
+Revises: ${down_revision | comma,n}
+Create Date: ${create_date}
+"""
+from alembic import op
+import sqlalchemy as sa
+${imports if imports else ""}
+
+# revision identifiers
+revision = ${repr(up_revision)}
+down_revision = ${repr(down_revision)}
+branch_labels = ${repr(branch_labels)}
+depends_on = ${repr(depends_on)}
+
+
+def upgrade() -> None:
+    ${upgrades if upgrades else "pass"}
+
+
+def downgrade() -> None:
+    ${downgrades if downgrades else "pass"}